Online Finds

img_1896

Unrelated to the links below… but out in bloom everywhere here at the moment so they’re on my mind – Frangipanis – just make me think of the beach… 🙂

Even though I had a huge break from posting on here the last couple of months, I was still online and did manage to get through a few links thatI had saved in my ‘Reading List’. I have a really bad habit of just seemingly ‘collecting’ links and never getting around to actually reading the articles! Does anyone else do that? I’ve got about a hundred things on there at the moment so I’ve put aside some time each week to work my way through them… for now though, here are a few that I got to recently – enjoy 🙂

Maggie Whitley – 5 Ways I Continue MY Creativity While Living in a Small Space

CNET – Google Aims to Make Street Art Last Forever

Creative Women’s Circle – My Advice: Going Freelance

Messy Nessy Chic – All Aboard the Mortuary Railway (and other Secrets of Sydney)

Dazed – Anna Wintour Has Some Harsh Advice for Fashion Students

The Great Discontent – Molly Crabapple

99U – How Death Motivates Us All

Branch – What Does Your Brand Stand For? Define it with Pillars

Gala Darling – My Best Piece of Advice for Writers

Nubby Twiglet – Media Kit Insights: The Who, What and Why!

Collectors Weekly – Is Our Retro Obsession Ruining Everything?

Mark Manson – 10 Life Lessons to Excel in Your 30s

 

Heeelllooooo!! And a little health update…

wonderwoman

Wonder Woman – A Chrissy pressie I got off a relative who knows my penchant for trying to ‘do all the things’… Something I forgot isn’t realistic these last couple of months! 🙂

Happy 2017! Yes I know it’s February, so the Happy New Year thing has kind of passed, buuuut, I’ve been gone for a few months and this is my first post for the new year.

How are we all? I’m… good? Yea, today is good. An awful lot has happened since my last post, there’s been some great ‘ups’ and also some pretty low ‘downs’ but right now, at this moment in time, all is pretty well.

Things are still incredibly busy with working the 9-5, trying to finish my Graphic Design course (I am sooo close!!) and, you know, life in general.

My health – the ulcerative colitis (autoimmune disease) I’ve mentioned before – is still something I’m learning to manage every day, but I have to say there are a lot more good days now than there used to be.

I’ve got my diet fairly well sorted for managing it with the no dairy or gluten, but I do slip (a lot) on remembering how much fructose sugars I’ve had and that can have a not-so-great effect on me… I’m also still learning which seemingly random foods outside of those general groups will take me down – the big ones right now are quinoa and green apples… who would have thought??

Stress is also a big trigger for setting off my symptoms – and the one where the ‘Wonder Woman’ fiction comes in to play… lets just say that moving house, while trying to renovate the one you’re moving out of and the one you’re moving into, over the Christmas/New Year Period, while also coordinating a huge audit at work, and attempting to complete assignments, as well as doing everything you can to maintain a fairly prescribed food plan, and, you know all the other ‘life’ stuff… kind of hits all the stress buttons – at once… Can’t say those few weeks were the most fun (or healthiest) of my life… for me oooorrrr the people around me – ekk! Buuuut, things are a bit calmer now, and I’m not yelling quite so much, so everyone is a bit happier, haha 🙂

Anyway, now that things have relaxed a bit, I’ll be getting back stuck into this blog. I’ve worked out a bit of a plan of what I want to post about this year so we should be back on track!

Hope you’ve all had a great start to 2017 – talk soon 🙂

Online Finds

img_9842

A bit of colour for this morning 🙂

Morning 🙂 How are we all today? I’m…. okay.

Not really in the mood for super long chats today, so lets jump straight in to the interesting bits and pieces I’ve come across online lately…

Creative Bloq – Kick-start your creativity with self-imposed constraints

Badass Lady Creatives [in History]: Cipe Pineles

Gala Darling – You Don’t Have to be Perfect to Inspire Others

Creative Bloq – 10 Buzzwords Every Creative Should Know

Nubby Twiglet – The Comparison Trap: Your Real Life Isn’t a Highlight Reel

Chris Guillebeau – “Don’t Have Dreams: Have Things To Do”: Mark Krause’s Long Walk Across Turkey

Penelope Trunk – Leaving Your Options Open Sets You Back

Freelance to Freedom Project – How Freelancing Has Made Me A Better Person

Jessica Hische – Non-Creepy Networking: Party Etiquette

Business Chicks – What No One Tells You About Being An Entrepreneur

Breanna Rose – Kick Those Excuses to the Kerb

Psychology for Photographers – The Fastest Way to Bankrupt Your Dream (And How to Avoid It)

Enjoy 🙂

 

 

An Honest Post on Where I’m at…

ocean

Not where I’m at… but where I would mind being 🙂

I almost quit last week. My course, this blog, trying so hard with my new ‘healthy’ way of living, and a few other things too. I’d had enough, I was tired, I didn’t want any more expectations on me. I just wanted to be left alone to maybe sleep for a week or so. I was thiiiiiis close to just giving up.

But then I saw a life coach… Now before you go rolling your eyes, yes yes, I’ve been pretty sceptical about them in the past, but someone close to me was seeing this particular coach and was finding it beneficial, and I was at a point where something needed to change I’d try just about anything. So I went along for my first catch-up and, what can I say, I haven’t quit any of the things I was on the verge of giving up. I have a new game plan and I’m working on a new way of looking at things.

The life coach asked questions and listened to me and helped me narrow down a few key actions I could take right now to make some changes that would help me out. They weren’t huge or complicated and I’ve started working through them and seeing changes already. The biggest one was putting my early morning study sessions back in my calendar. I was at a real blockage in my course, not making a lot of progress and panicking that I have to finish it this year, but the life coach turned me on to a method that Elizabeth Gilbert talks about where you don’t wait for the inspiration to do the work, you do the work and the inspiration will come. So, now, six days a week, I committed to sitting down and studying for 1 hr (I chose in the morning because that’s when my head is the most clear and can focus). Sometimes this’ll be a chore and I’ll struggle through the hour, but other times, it’ll fly by and I’ll want to stay at my desk for even longer. Either way, I’m at least now making progress. This alone has made me feel a bit better.

Sounds simple hey, and it is definitely something I could have done on my own, the same as the other actions on my new list. But I think what I got out of the life coach session the most was the validation from a complete stranger that what I’ve got going on in my life right now is a lot and no, not everyone could just ‘handle’ it all, and I shouldn’t be frustrated or disappointed that I can’t do everything. She helped me see this and narrow things down to what absolute priorities are at the moment. This is something that was difficult to see on my own, and also difficult to talk through with friends and family. The non-biased thoughts of a stranger can be quite helpful.

So, I’m not quitting this blog because I really like writing and sharing what I’m up to, but I wouldn’t be expecting multiple updates each week for awhile, and there may be weeks when I don’t post at all. I won’t have forgotten about the blog, but I’ll just have other priorities that week… and that is okay.

xxx

Online Finds

img_3042

Pic from last years October long weekend… Fingers-crossed this one is just as relaxing 🙂

Hi All, How’s things? I’m not too bad at the moment. Yesterday was a pretty good day health-wise and so far today is going well too, so minimal complaints from me 🙂

As we eagerly anticipate this coming long weekend, I thought I’d share a few online finds I’ve come across lately to keep your mind off the count-down till Friday afternoon lol 🙂

The Art of Non-Conformity – “3 Encounters That Changed My Life”: How a Corporate Employee Gained a New Perspective through Travel

Digital Photo Secrets – Visual Design: Enhancing Your Photography With Patterns

The New York Times – Old Masters at the Top of Their Game

Smashing Magazine – When A Thousand Words Is Worth A Picture

Creative Women’s Circle – Visual Merchandising for Markets

Sarah Lynn Design – Beginner’s Guide to Website Design: Giving Feedback

Flying Solo – Excuse Buster: Dealing with the Word ‘How’

Embracing the Divine Sensual: The Body Sacred – Starting a New Art Form? A Letter to the Beginner Dancer

New Jersey Graphic Design – So You Want to be a Graphic Designer

Rock n Roll Bride – How to be an Artist

The Wonder Forest – 5 Ways to Make Money as an Artist

Bustle – What I Instagrammed Vs. What Was Really Happening, Or My Entire Life Is A Lie

xx

“Money & Mindfulness” by Lisa Messenger

Money & Mindfulness – Lisa Messenger

Collective magazine is by far my favourite magazine, and I’ll listen to just about anything Lisa Messenger has to say… but I have to admit, “Money & Mindfulness” wasn’t even on my ‘Books to Read’ list. I’m okay with finances and I can balance income and expenditure, but finances and money in general aren’t topics that thrill me.
Coming closer to the end of my course and wanting a little more insight on how to manage what to do next made me download “Money & Mindfulness” though, and things changed from there… This is a great book! It’s not all about facts and figures and the mathematics of finances, but things like why we earn money, what drives us, how much do we think we need, the feelings we have towards it, generosity and what risks we’re willing to take. So many insightful things!

One of the highlights for me was reading what Lisa had to say about how wanting to make money for the sake of having it and thinking that money alone will make you happy won’t work. You need to see money as a means to an end. A way to change the world and enable you to live the life you dream of. I totally agree with this. Money can’t buy you happiness, but it sure does allow you some freedom to make choices.

To do this though, you need to know the ‘what’ and ‘why’ of why you want to make money, just saying to have freedom and be able to make your own choices isn’t enough. You need to know what this looks like for you, for example, as I understood Lisa’s words, for me freedom is being able to work from anywhere in the world at any time of day – having the flexibility to fit ‘work’ in and around the things that make me happy… If work includes that, then bonus! Lisa goes on to explain the need to know the exact income you desire, a timeline to get to your end goal and what you will do to earn this money… these are things I’m still working on.

Another important part of money that Lisa delves into is what to charge for your products or services. This includes not only the final dollar amount that goes to the customer, but also how much your time, health and wellbeing is worth. The line “Would you burn a $5 note” (p128*) really got me thinking about how much my time is worth. This part of the book makes “Money & Mindfulness” worthwhile alone if all you’re interested in is pricing.

Knowing who to have around you is another thing business owners, freelancers and entrepreneurs need to know. Lisa talks a lot about the main business supports, the need to hire to you weaknesses and finding people who either share your dream and vision, or are willing to support it. Also what sort of set-up and costs starting a business might involve, as well as insurances.

One last take-away for me from “Money & Mindfulness” is that I need to stop waiting until everything is perfect (in my mind!) to start… that’s what Etsy and eBay are for J

“If you had all the money you ever needed, what would you be doing with your life right now?” – Lisa Messenger (Money & Mindfulness, p249)

Time to get some plans into action!

*Side note… I read this book on my iPhone through iBook’s, so I have no idea how my page numbers line up with other people’s iBook settings, or the actual physical book…

A Day to Relax

scrapbook-2

Some snaps from my Design Inspo. Scrapbooks

Ahhhh… Today was the first time… uh, I can’t even remember, where I stayed in my PJs till lunchtime.

After a stressful few weeks including throwing one of my closest friends a kitchen tea yesterday, I was pretty exhausted, so I decided to give myself the ‘day off’ today.

I slept in, had a looooong breakie with a cup of tea and Collective mag, did a bit of cooking, and then worked on my design insp. scrapbooks while catching up on my YouTube Watch Later list… It was just what I needed 🙂

Here are some of my fave’s from my YouTube session today…

Hope you’ve all had a relaxing weekend!